The Heart of Your Relationship - Composite Sun in the 5th and 11th House

The last time I decided to give you a trick of the trade I use in my Relationship Reviews, I talked about how the Sun in the composite chart can give you insight into the heart of your relationship. We've already covered the 1st, 6th, 7th, and 12th, Now let's jump into the next installment!

For this post, let’s focus on the 5th and the 11th. This is an axis where the good times roll. The 5th house deals with everyday pleasure and abundance while the 11th deals with friendship and big dreams.

Composite Sun in the 5th House

For relationships that have the composite Sun in the 5th, there is a deep sense of enjoyment. You truly like being in each other’s company. And, as the 5th house is the house of pleasure, there’s an excellent chance that your sex life in incredible. Expect to be have the freedom to explore fantasies and learn about yourself by finding what gets you off.

The 5th house is also associated with creativity. If you’re already an artistic type, expect it to kick into overdrive in a relationship like this. Whether you make music, paint, or even play little decorating games on your phone, this relationship will bring something into the world. 

And speaking of bringing things into the world, the 5th house is also associated with children. If you want little ones, this is the house to focus on. This is also a great house to ensure that step-parenting goes well. Or even if you don’t want kids, expect nieces, nephews, grandkids, neighbors, or whoever to play an outsized role in your life.

While the 5th house is undeniably fun, it can sometimes be a little too fun. With the Sun in the composite 5th house, it would be all too easy to spend the day with a glass of wine in one hand and a video game controller in the other, whiling your life away in sweet hedonistic bliss. When you get swept up on all life’s little pleasures, it can be difficult to keep sight on the bigger picture. To counteract this, it’s important to lean on the opposite house, which is the 11th. Be sure to take a step back and look at your greater goals in life. It’s fine to relax every now and then, but are you still moving in the trajectory of your dreams? Make sure you're aiming in the right direction, and then go back to your dessert.

Composite Sun in the 11th House

Relationships with the composite Sun in the 11th house are relationships of grand alliances and even grander dreams.  The 11th house deals with friendship, and that’s exactly what you’ll get in these relationships. Expect to have a true meeting of the minds as your find yourselves almost magically in sync.

You can also expect your partner to go to bat for you. In the ancient world, when houses were being defined, friendship was more than just hanging out. It was able giving each other opportunities and protection. Friends were allies in every sense of the world. So when you have the Sun in the composite 11th house, you will defend each other at every opportunity.

And you’ll do more than that. This is the house of big dreams, so you’ll find ways to give each other a leg up in every scenario. You’ll find each other jobs, promote each other’s businesses, and share your contacts to help your loved one make it big. And when the two of you share a goal, nothing can stop you. With the synergy generated by the 11th house, you’ll find yourself arriving at your dream future by sheer momentum.

And while the Sun in the 11th house can create a true power couple, it can also cause you to forget about the little things. When your mind is always focused on the next step, you often miss the little joys around you. And for this, lean on the 5th house. Go out to celebrate not just when you achieve something grand, but also when you get through a long work week. Make a fantastic meal just because, and sit around together and giggle at the TV. And when you’ve rested, go back out and make your dreams a reality.

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There’s no right or wrong way to structure a relationship. The right way is the own that works for the people in it. And if you even find yourself drifting too far in one direction, look to the opposite house to correct your course!

What house is your composite Sun in? What’s it like?

If you want info on your specific relationship, consult with me!